Colorful Lives, Soft Autumn Tim Stich

September 07, 2023 6 min read

Personal Color Analyst Kerry Jones with Son, Soft Autumn Tim Stich

It’s a treat to introduce you to this month's colorful lives feature, Soft Autumn Tim Stich who is also my son!! Tim’s experience with shopping for clothing and wearing color is unique as I became a color analyst when he was quite young. When he and his sister Clare were little, I tried dressing them in bright colors with strong patterns as was the style then.....but even before learning about personal color harmony, I started to sense that the clothes overwhelmed them (Clare is a Soft Summer) and began dressing them in muted colors and solids. I was even shocked the other day to discover when I pulled out his school photos that every single photo (even before I learned of his color palette) was taken in a Soft Autumn color. You can see how his  soft autumn coloring has evolved wearing the soft, earthy colors that suit his ruddy hair, freckles and soft blue/green eyes.  

Tim Stich and Clare Stich in brighter and softer colors

Tim was always drawn to a classic style and never liked wearing anything baggy like cargo shorts (he refused even while in preschool!) or trendy. He preferred button down collared shirts and pants. He never owned a pair of jeans. Many of the clothes in the muted hues are designed for guys with a more natural or outdoorsy look. As a classic style, he was always drawn to navy and softer versions of navy and gray work well for him but it has been a challenge sometimes to avoid the stripes, plaids and stronger patterns that are popular in the classic style. It’s when he wears solids that match the colors of his eyes and hair that the overall harmony really shows.

Over the years, he has mostly been very eager to wear what suits him and looked to me to help him distinguish soft autumn colors from the two seasons nearby - warm autumn and soft summer.  We enjoy shopping together, especially now that he lives in Manhattan and the shopping is abundant. It can be a challenge to find his colors in sizes and styles that fit but when its perfect, it feels great and he knows it. Read on to learn more about what it’s like to be a guy whose mom is a color consultant!

For me, having a personal color analysis wasn’t a choice. I was indoctrinated into the color world early when my Mom started the business. I remember when she first talked about jumping into this career I was only about 10 and confused. “People are going to pay you to tell them they look good in pink?” was my first question. I thought of colors as finite, the ones you’d find on flash cards or that make up your starter pack of crayons, but I have spent much time since looking out for the specific shades of each.

Throughout my adolescence I was supportive while my Mom picked out the majority of my clothes, and we were struck looking back at how often she picked ones that fit my season even before she had formally started her business. The gap in my teeth and greasy hair were more than enough to keep me humble, but at the very least she hit on the colors and soft nature that I’d grow to look out for.

Soft Autumn Tim Stich in his colors in school photos

One of my younger memories of getting my Mom’s expertise was when I tried out for a golf team and played awful (shocker!). When I got home my Mom saw the shirt I was wearing - a bright red to emulate Tiger Woods - and jokingly said “Well of course you didn't play well, that shirt is way off for you!” The shirt and my desire to wear bright colors on the golf course are both long gone. She’s right - look good, feel good, play good a la Deion Sanders.

It’s in sports that I have to stray from my colors. The teams I support have long gone passed being a choice and I didn’t decide their colors - Syracuse Orange, Rochester Red Wings red, Penn State white, and the blessed Buffalo Bills all have team colors that are way too strong for me - it becomes more of an issue when they play poorly. 

Soft Autumn Tim Stich in colors from favorite sports teams

During high school, it was noticeable to my friends and became a running gag the amount of soft earth tones I wore. Mine were different from the colors that were in style, and I don’t think we’d fully found the shades that made me most comfortable yet. As I moved towards graduation more and more of my friends wanted to get their colors done too. It confirmed that we should be wearing different tones from each other - none of us were the same!

High School Friends getting their colors done

When I finished high school, senior pictures tended to be done in the timeless white or a light blue dress shirt. We knew that wouldn’t work for me then and even now in a professional setting, I stick with the color and tone that suit me as a Soft Autumn. Ten years later I wore almost the same green shirt in an updated headshot.

Tim Stich headshots in Soft Autumn green

I strayed a bit from what I’d learned and just went after the style when I first started to shop more on my own. Time after time, however, I found that if something didn’t feel like it “worked” it was because the color was off. The design would match my classic style but when I looked in the mirror it just didn’t feel right. Shopping on my own, I finally had the lightbulb moment in understanding how this works - sticking to solids, tone on tone, monochromatic combinations with soft fabrics and textures. (I do still like to text a pic of what I’m picking out to my mom, just for a second opinion from time to time).

Soft Autumn Tim Stich Shopping in NYC

Living in New York City, there’s a sea of shopping options, and I’ve appreciated being able to eliminate the majority of them quickly. At times I find myself digging through racks of clothes frustrated that I’m coming up empty. A lot of the earth tones that make up Soft Autumn seem to show themselves in more rugged, outdoorsy styles. My outside activities tend to lean into the “soft” in Soft Autumn.

Soft Autumn Tim Stich in New York City

When I recently shopped for a new pair of glasses, my first thought was just brown - but as I started to look through various pairs I realized even in the glasses I needed something softer, and my Mom encouraged me to find ones that matched my hair color and more wavy hair. My previous frames had been too harsh and dark, and pulled too much attention instead of mixing in with the rest of what I was going for.

Soft Autumn Tim Stich Before and After eyeglasses 

I’ve reached an age where I’m more consistently needing clothes to wear to more upscale events - meetings, networking events, and just about a wedding per weekend have become commonplace. I’ve kept to lighter earth tones even for weddings, which has been a standout from  most of my friends in their standard navy suits.

Tim Stich in Beige Suit with friends in Navy suits

Some purchases, however, are more custom and in the past few years I’ve jumped at the chance to find pieces I’ll use often that I can customize to my needs. I recently worked with Chuck Alf at Buffalo Custom Tailors to choose shades in Soft Autumn. For the jacket we went with a muted plaid. The shirt is my off-white and the two pairs of pants are also high off my swatch book. When combined with my hair and glasses it’s a monochromatic look.

Soft Autumn Tim Stich Custom Clothing

It’s been interesting to think of myself as a Soft Autumn as I’ve grown older and to consider what I connect with instinctually. Autumn has always been my favorite time of year and when I feel the most in sync with the world. It feels like home and a connection to my roots - a crisp day sporting a sweater and an Irish cap is what I look forward to year round, and always a reminder of my color palette.

Soft Autumn Tim Stich Autumn vibes

Most often when I talk about my Mom’s job, the responses are similar to the one I gave when I was 10 - at first. But, as I’ve gotten older, I’ve become much more adept in answering the question and more eager to explain the benefits of understanding your personal coloring and style. I don’t think I’ll ever take over the family business but I’m proud of my Mom and love that I get to find the opportunity to promote what she does. After nearly 20 years of her being in business, I can now confirm - she certainly does more than just tell people they look good in pink.

 Kerry Jones and Tim Stich with the Soft Autumn swatch book


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